...but I get really excited and happy when he texts me.
Hi Readers!!
How’s your crush doing?! Or not your crush and just a person whom you feel happy around. Yes, sometimes human beings have people like that in their life whom they might not necessarily like, but still get butterflies around them. However, we should not always be sure that if we get butterflies around a certain person we might like them. However, getting butterflies when they text you, call you, or maybe even when you think about them, might be a sign of you do like them, and you do have feelings for them! Being sure about your feelings can be a complicated task, but here are some signs that may confirm that YES, you do have a crush on them!
Constantly on your mind: When you have a crush on someone, you might be thinking about them constantly. Even if they’re not with you in real life, they’ll always be in your mind.
Nervousness around them: When they are around you in real life, you might feel nervous or anxiety around them, in a good way. You might be more conscious about your appearance around them and might be scared to do anything wrong.
You plan conversations in your head: Although it’s natural to plan a speech or dialogue delivery in your head for a work or social level, if you’re doing the same to meet someone- chances are you might want to put a really good impression for yourself onto them. You might be putting all of this effort just to impress them. A desire of wanting to impress someone might be a sign that you actually have a crush on them.
You want to be around them: When you like someone, there’s a high possibility that you want to be surrounded by their energy, their vibes, or for them to just be there, regardless of whether you two would have a conversation or not. If you want to be around a special kind of person, well then you might as well have a crush on them. The feeling of you being close to them might even send butterflies in your stomach and that’s what a crush is honestly for.
You consider their opinion: When you have a crush on someone, you consider their perspectives as well. Their will be valuable for you! When you care about someone’s opinion, chances are that you are actually interested in them. Also, don’t just think that well, I care about the opinions of my family and friends. Well, how deeply do you care about their opinion is the question that you might ask yourself.
Your friends notice a change in behavior when you’re around them: There is a high possibility that you may act differently around a certain individual. You might act more nicer around them, or like the things you say might be different around them. If there is a change in your behavior especially when a certain person is around, there is a high possibility that you do have a crush on them!
Being sure about your feelings for someone can be a hard task and it may seem very complicated at first. The main advise I would give is to give yourself time. Don’t just jump to conclusions especially in the context of your feelings. Take time, think about it, consider what happens to you when you are around them or just during the day when you have feelings about them. It sure might be tough about being sure for your feelings, but it’s not impossible!
Good luck Readers!
Dear Letterbox
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